Every woman and every man on earth desires to have a family some day. To love and to be loved back. To have a soul mate is everyone’s dream. But then, what do you do when that special person takes forever to come? Many people end up frustrated and lose hope.
“I have given up on getting a life time partner and even on marriage. All the men I meet are clearly not the type of men I would love to settle down with,” said one of my girlfriends, during her celebration to make her thirty years on this earth.
They say at some point a woman’s biological clock starts to tick and if someone is not forthcoming, ladies get worried and frustrated and of course there is also a lot of pressure from the larger family who want to see you settle down and have a family.
Having taken this discussion a little further, I remembered one of my girlfriends who has been on my toes, asking me to help her get a life partner. Not sure how to go about this, but determined to help since we have been friends for too long, I guess I can only do this up to a given point and leave the rest to her.
We had a chit-chat and asked her to clearly tell me the kind of man she wants and she should also be ready to explain who she is. What is she bringing on board?
So, this is what she came up with and I said, ok, I will use my networks to ask whoever feels up to the task, to get in touch with me and I will pass the message to her. Read on, are you the ideal candidate? If you are, get back to me with your request. And if you are not, still take some time to get in touch with me and tell me what you think about this request. I am informed that many people think it is a turn off when a woman comes out aggressively explaining what she wants, as far as the quest for soul mates and marriage partners is concerned.
What are friends for? I had to do this for one of my girlfriends.
I am honored by the trust she has in me. Life seems to get complicated every other day and busy we become and sometimes, getting time to meet new people outside our work, becomes more and more cumbersome. If you think you suit to be this kind of person, fungua roho yako na uongee. (Open your heart and speak out.)
This is what she desires of you.
“Someone who is as cute, friend maker, knows, if he is followed, it is because of his character. Is purpose-driven, Is accountable for his life, Knows that a bad husband cannot be a good father, Is self-disciplined, Is a time-manager, Allows nothing to distract him from his goals, Organizes on his “knees”, Will organize so he doesn’t agonize, Works smart: not just hard, Prioritizes constantly, Perpetually self-evaluates, Is dependent on the Holy Spirit, Works from God’s agenda, not his own and should be ready to settle down!
And this is about her. I know almost everything about her, so should you have any queries, please get in touch with me.
I am a 29 years old girl turning 30 this September who wants to love and be loved! I am a human resource specialist by profession. I am laid back, a little bit shy but very friendly. I come from a family of 3 kids and I love them to death. My family will always be close to me! I value family, friendship and respect. I work very hard in life since I want a better life for me and my future family! I am a little bit conservative (agree strongly to Christian views like marriage-one man and woman, I believe in God). I would like to settle and start a family with my future best friend, husband and partner for life.
I would like to have at least one child and if we both agree we can open our home to another child through adoption (this is negotiable). Other traits I believe I have: I am imaginative, recognize my potential and have the ambition to realize it.
I am smart, intelligent, and curious to understand things, like to share, and I am naturally good person.
I am keen to experience new things, open-minded, I am able to be empathetic and sensitive, I intuitively recognize beauty and virtues, and have my own value system that aligns with who I am, I don’t cling to anything; I rely on my own power, I believe there are no hopeless situations, I am determined to succeed one way or another. I am the opposite of arrogant, I don’t take myself too seriously, and I have a sense of humor. I believe people do the best they know, I am also good at letting go.
I am internally inspired and driven to action, interested in expressing myself (Patience Nyange knows this too well.) Yes, I know that. She is indeed attractive and charismatic.
“By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will become happy; if you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher.” Socrates